love of your life, boy of your dreams:

If you want to fall in love, and you've had bad luck in the past, or you're just unclear/not sure about what you want in someone......Make a wish list! it helps you be clear, daydream, and specify what actually matters to you! here's mine- so you don't think I'm just trying to make you do something lame:

he's a facilitator of dreams

he makes me laugh sooo much

he listens to me and doesn't wish I'd shut the fuck up

he actually likes to listen to me and hear what i have been storing up in my mind

he likes me

i like him

he is my friend

he's the most gorgeous sexy man I've ever seen

he loves me

i love him

he's extremely smart

he's charming

he's great in social situations

nonsmoker

he drinks every once in a while-only socially

he's very successful and loves the work that he does

he's funny

he's witty

he's quick witted

i respect him

he respects me

he's the best sex I've ever had in my life

I'm the best sex he's ever had in his life

he's very stylish

he's great dresser

i make him laugh

he doesn't make me angry

i don't make him angry

we make each others lives BETTER

i am his best friend

he is my best friend

we have the best sex in the world

we don't fight

we laugh all the time

he loves me

i love him

i have no desire to cheat

he has no desire to cheat

we look great together

we are a handsome couple

i love how i see myself through his eyes

i am the most beautiful girl he's ever seen

he is my age or a little bit older

he totally gets my sense of humor

i totally get his sense of humor

he surprises me with presents: like Chanel bags (black jumbo classic lambskin bag with gold hardware-if not black, rosebud, but always lambskin NOT cambon and always gold hardware), flowers (white roses, tulips, red roses)

he has the money to pay for these things and not go bankrupt

he's cool

he's not a poser

he's confident

he knows who he is

he inspires me

i inspire him

we are in love!

*YES, i know i rambled and repeated myself, and said very BIG grandiose things! but who cares! love is crazy and exciting and amazing! and I'd rather dream big, rather than small! xoxo

what you want your life to be:

So, the new year is nearly upon us and LOTS of things need to change!!! Ask yourselves these questions: Are you happy? do you like who you see in the mirror? are you in love? Do you want to be in love? Do you have a serious crush on someone? Do you dress like a lame fucking asshole? Do you need a new haircut and color tweak? (I strongly recommend goodform on Fairfax if you live in Los Angeles, or are even just visiting la for a layover! Ask for jay! he's a whiz at cuts and a master of color! I'm not kidding, so stop laughing! The dude will change your life! Plus he's hot, AND straight, with abs of steal!) Do you need an attitude adjustment? Do you like how you make people feel? Or how you feel around people? Do you hate your job? Are you in a rut? Do you smoke? Do you do drugs or drink too much? Are you mean, jealous, vindictive and talk a lot of shit? Do you hurt peoples feelings and get off on making people feel small? Do you hate your family? Do you even really like your friends? Let's reassess why? Do you need to do some clutter control/spring cleaning/a winter wipe out- when it comes to toxic friends and or family that make you super bummed and only drain you of energy? If you're always coming home from a get together sad and in tears or tired...don't get together with the person you just got home from hanging out with. Do you care too much about what people think about you that it's sometimes debilitating and crippling your soul? Think about these questions! 2009 should be a fucking rad year for you (and me, let's not be selfish, geeze!)! Let's make that happen! Tomorrows post will zero in on love, but this post is for your overall life!!! Go through your closet and get rid of anything and everything you never wear/use anymore. Make piles! Don't be one! Once your piles are in order, take the most fashionable of the piles to be sold at wasteland! Don't waste their time with yellow arm pitted hanes t shirts thank you very much! They don't owe you shit! Tell Ernest and the gang that I say hi and I love you! Take the money you make, and RUN to get a Starbucks -there's one down the street by urban outfitters- and write your new years resolutions! What do you want your life to be? This is VERY important! I really do believe that you paint your own life picture! Listen, if you're reading this blog it means you probably care a lot about your outfits and how you present yourself/put yourself together-on a day to day basis! Why not care just as much about your life's future and where you end up!? The clock is ticking! The cigs and alcohol and drugs are aging you! And youth is power! So cash in on it now! Look at Cory Kennedy and mark hunter! They're making their youth count!!! How about you? I'm not even exactly sure what they do, but it seems super fun/providing them with money and notoriety. Back to the point: just sort yourself out, get your priorities straight! And make a contribution to the world by being the best you can be! didn't nelson Mandela have a quote about that or something "shine your light bright so you'll inspire others to shine their light" or whatever? Blah blah blah! Just try not to do drugs and be an asshole. I hope I've made my point. Stay tuned for the "get that love 2009 style" post tomorrow. I love you. Now make sure that you love you. Later! Xoxo
ps: i stole this from a lovely young woman's myspace page: "Say what you want, and do what you feel because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind."~Dr. Seuss